May 19, 2012

Judge of Probate Terrance Lomme, Busy With Probate Cases, and Non-Probate Matters as Well

Judge of Probate Terrance Lomme

Judge of Probate Terrance Lomme has immense responsibilities, as a sitting judge of probate for nine towns in eastern Connecticut.  Not only is he the judicial officer who determines the validity of Wills for probate in these towns, he also has many other judicial tasks that are unrelated to probating Wills.

The responsibilities of Judge Lomme not related to Wills include: 1) appointing guardians for persons with intellectual disabilities, 2) approving sterilization and placement of persons with intellectual disabilities, and 3) appointing conservators for persons found incapable of caring for themselves.

Also, Judge Lomme has the power to: 1) remove unfit parents as guardians of their children, 2) hear claims of paternity of unwed fathers, 3) terminate the parental rights of parents, who cannot fulfill their parental responsibilities, and 4) grant adoptions.

In addition, Judge Lomme is empowered to: 1) grant changes of name, 2) approve or disapprove the marriage of persons under the age of 16, and 3) assist persons in obtaining passports, which he usually refers to U.S. Post Office down the street.

Also, in cases of deceased persons, who died without a Will, Judge Lomme is charged with the responsibility of apportioning the assets of the deceased in accordance with statutory requirements.

The nine towns in Judge Lomme’s judicial district

The nine towns in Judge Lomme’s judicial district are: Chester, Clinton, Deep River, Essex, Haddam, Killingworth, Lyme, Old Saybrook and Westbrook, and his suite of offices are located on the second floor of the Town Hall of Old Saybrook.

To assist him in exercising his judicial responsibilities, Judge Lomme has a staff of nine, lead by his Chief Clerk, Valerie Shickel. To adjudicate the matters under his jurisdiction, Judge Lomme says that he holds on average from 15 to 20 hearings a week. Hearings are held in a room across the hall from his main suite of offices, and they are open to the public. In conducting the hearings Judge Lomme wears a suit and not a judge’s robe.

Judge of Probate offices in Old Saybrook Town Hall

In many cases there are fees involved, when a party appears before Judge Lomme, most especially in probate matters. In some cases these fees can run into thousands of dollars. These fees are paid with the application regardless of whether there is a hearing. Usually the fees in matters involving Wills are covered by taking the money from the estate of the deceased. Also, the monies collected, obviously, go to the state and not to the judge.

The annual salary of Judge Lomme as a Judge of Probate is $110,000  a year.

The qualifications of Judge of Probate Lomme

Judge Lomme brings an extensive background to the position of Judge of Probate. Elected in 2010, Judge Lomme has over thirty years of experience in practicing law. He also holds a Juris Doctor degree from Quinnipiac University, and he is a graduate of Eastern Connecticut College.

When characterizing his present position as a Judge of Probate over nine towns in Connecticut, Judge Lomme says, “I have a pretty full plate.”

Even though judges of the Superior Court, the Appellate Courts and the Supreme Court of the state are prohibited from practicing law for private clients, this is not the case for the state’s Judges of Probate.  

Because of his very full plate as a Judge of Probate, even though he knew that he could continue to practice law, Judge Loome has radically reduced his private law practice. He has resigned as a partner of his law firm and now holds the less demanding position as Of Counsel. Also, he has reduced the number of clients that he has at his firm, from 150 to 10, according to the judge.

Representing a “high profile” client in Essex

Judge Lomme is presently representing a “high profile” private client in the Town of Essex. The client, a New York City developer, is seeking to develop 11 acres of land on Foxboro Point. Foxboro Point is considered one of the most beautiful areas in Essex, and the Judge’s client is seeking to build seven new homes on a parcel, which is located directly on North Cove of the Connecticut River.

Judge Lomme representing Foxboro Point developer at hearing

In his capacity as a private lawyer representing the developer, Judge Lomme to date has appeared at public hearings of both the Essex Inland Waterways and Watercourses Commission and the Essex Planning Commission.

The Inland Waterways Commission held that the developer’s plans were outside its jurisdiction. However, there could be opposition to the Foxboro Point development at the Planning Commission hearing, coming up on March 8. Should this opposition occur, most likely, Judge Lomme as private counsel would seek to refute it.

Judge Lomme will also accompany the developer’s Civil Engineer, Joe Wren, as he conducts a “site walk” for the members of the Planning Commission on March 3, as Wren did previously for the members of the Inland Wetlands Commission.

Judge Lomme characterizes his assignment for the private developer at Foxboro Point as “zoning work.” As such he deems it totally appropriate for a Judge of Probate to assume a private counsel’s role. Also he says that this kind of work “works out well, because I can do it nights and weekends.”

Stating that he has “a heightened sensitivity to conflicts,” Judge Lomme says that he would recuse himself, if a member of the Essex Planning Commission came before his court during the Foxboro Point development’s approval process. He also says he would expect a member of the Planning Commission to do the same, and not vote on the Foxboro Point project, if they had a case before his court.

Some observers feel that it is only a question of time before Judges of Probate will no longer be permitted to practice in law for private clients, in addition to their official judicial duties. However, for the present it is permissible under the law. In fact, Judge Lomme estimates that as many as 80% of the Judges of Probate in the state represent private clients in addition to their judicial duties.

Youth and Family Services Holiday Giving Program

Lexi Bardos, 2010 program volunteer, helps with the packing process.

The Old Saybrook community has a rich tradition of helping those in need. The holiday season is now upon us and many individuals, businesses and organizations are working again with Youth and Family Services, Social Services and the Department of Police Services’ Toy Drive, to ensure that everyone in the community has a chance to enjoy a happy holiday season regardless of financial pressures. If you wish to help by donating holiday gifts/wrapping paper, “adopting“ a family in need and/or volunteering your time, please register today.

Please note (as we are sure you will understand) we must preserve the confidentiality of all families being helped for the holidays. Families will only be identified by a number assigned to them.

Donated items should be unwrapped. We are happy to accept wrapping paper donations to be included with the gifts so that parents/guardians can prepare their child(s) present for holiday morning. We ask that donors deliver their donations, marked with the family number they are assigned if applicable, to the Old Saybrook Fire House side entrance between 9:00 am and 6:00 pm from Tuesday, December 13th through Friday, December 16 .

This program relies on the generosity of the many community volunteers who donate their time to help sort, pack, shop, pick up some donations, and more. Volunteers can sign up for morning or afternoon work sessions from December 16 through the 19. If you would like to join this year’s team of volunteers, please register with Youth and Family Services as soon as possible.

Thank you in advance for your thoughtfulness and generosity. May you enjoy a happy and healthy holiday season.

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Volunteers from Liberty Bank Install Born Learning Trail in Old Saybrook on Middlesex United Way Day of Caring

The Born Learning Trail in Old Saybrook at Goodwin Elementary School installed on Middlesex United Way Day of Caring

Old Saybrook, CT – Middlesex United Way’s annual Day of Caring was held on September 28, 2011, and a team of volunteers from Liberty Bank installed a Born Learning Trail (BLT) at Goodwin Elementary School in Old Saybrook. The Trails are an early learning tool featuring a series of signs on posts with fun, physical activities for parents and caregivers to do with their children. They are installed in a public setting for everyone in the community to enjoy.

Volunteers cemented posts into the ground, attached signs to the posts, and painted stencils with letters, numbers and shapes. “Liberty Bank employees participate in United Way Day of Caring every year. They recognize the value that this investment in time offers the community.” said Toral Maher, grants coordinator, Liberty Bank Foundation. “Community service has long been a hallmark of this bank; employees here mentor children, work in food pantries, and fundraise for important causes, and much more.”

The Trail installation was coordinated with the help of Heather McNeil, Director at Old Saybrook Youth and Family Services. “The project itself is a great way for parents and children to experience more engaged interaction in a playful, yet educational way. Working in conjunction with the Liberty Bank volunteers allows us to form and strengthen community partnerships that will last beyond this project, and also allows us to share the information about our agency work on a person-to-person level.” said Heather. “The school was thrilled to be chosen as the site for BLT, and as funding for ‘extras’ has been constrained, the generosity of Middlesex United Way provides their school community with an outside learning enhancement they might otherwise not have had the opportunity to experience.”

One of Middlesex United Way’s goals is to increase children’s readiness to learn by school entry. This focused Day of Caring project is one way in which United Way is achieving this goal and provide an early learning tool for communities in Middlesex County. Day of Caring is an annual event that matches groups of volunteer from local companies with projects at non-profit organizations.

Teams of volunteers from other local organizations installed trails in Clinton, Cromwell, East Hampton, Westbrook and the communities of Durham-Middlefield and Haddam-Killingworth. Trails already exist in the towns of Middletown and Portland. Lowe’s Home Improvement in Cromwell donated their time to pre-build all of the wood posts and cement footings for the trails.

To learn more about Born Learning Trails; as well as view photos and videos from all of the Day of Caring 2011 trail projects visit www.middlesexunitedway.org/day-caring-2011 or ‘Like’ us on Facebook www.facebook.com/middlesexunitedway  Middlesex United Way is advancing the common good by creating opportunities for a better life for all. Our focus is on education, income, health and housing – the building blocks for a good quality of life. United Way recruits people and organizations that bring the passion, expertise, and resources needed to get things done. That’s what it means to Live United.

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Essex Historical Society Presents “Life in a Village”

The Essex Historical Society invites you to attend a program called “Life in a Village” on Wednesday, November 9, from 7-9 pm at Gather, the present name of the Ivoryton Store.

In 1873/1874, Samuel Merrit Comstock built a store in the center of Ivoryton. The Ivoryton Store, later called Rose Brothers served as the anchor for the plan “of a village built around a factory, and a factory around a village” (quote from Houses of Essex by Don Malcarne). The second floor of this structure was known as Comstock Hall where Company and social functions were held until 1911.

The Essex Historical Society invites you to attend a program called “Life in a Village” on Wednesday, November 9, from 7-9 pm at Gather the present name of the Ivoryton Store. The main speaker, Chris Pagliuco, will speak on “putting the transition of Ivoryton from a rural farming community to an industrial village in a larger economic, political and cultural context”. Chris Pagliuco was recently named the Town Historian of the three villages Centerbrook, Essex and Ivoryton. He will contrast the fundamental differences in the pace, routines and relationships of our daily lives with those of Ivoryton residents 130 years ago. This includes “references to many of the features of the village still present today”.

Marie Negrelli, a resident of the area during the World War II era will bring a personal perspective of Ivoryton village. Marie says she will tell of “growing up in Ivoryton, sharing memories of Ivoryton Grammar School, Ivoryton Playhouse, Ivoryton Store, Pratt –Read, Clarks Pond and Jone’s Store”. She will also bring unique memorabilia and enlargements of her own postcard collection. Marie credits Ivoryton Librarian, Robbie Storms with sharing historical documents to give insight from her memories. Marie will be joined in remembering by her sisters Mary Lombardi and Joann Stone.

The Ivoryton Store has changed in appearance, owners and services and goods offered. However, it represents a glorious example of the Industrial Revolution in the lower Connecticut River Valley. So gather with owner Deanna of Gather as she graciously opens, 104 Main Street, Ivoryton after hours on November 9, to a flood of memories.

Seventh Annual Tree of Life Conference on Israel and Palestine to be held in Old Lyme November 5 and 6

Old Lyme, CT –The seventh annual Tree of Life Conference on Israel and Palestine will take place on Saturday and Sunday, November 5 and 6, in Old Lyme, CT, at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme (FCCOL). Open to the public, the interfaith forum is organized by the Tree of Life Educational Foundation (TOLEF) and supported by organizations and individuals committed to peace and justice. Consistent with the six previous conferences, the event will amplify the voices of peacemakers as  it illuminates issues inherent in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict routinely overlooked or under-reported by mainstream media. Special emphasis this year will be on journalism: how well it reports – or avoids – the truth.

In announcing this year’s Conference, the Rev. David W. Good, senior minister of the FCCOL, commented, “The protests of Arab Spring and the Palestinian bid for statehood at the UN bring into sharp relief many of the troubling aspects of the conflict we explore in Tree of Life initiatives. The American public is becoming more sensitive to the complicity of the U.S. in the ongoing tension in the Middle East. So this year, while we’ll again take a look at “facts on the ground,” our special focus on journalism, on the new media landscape, will help concerned citizens fill alarming gaps in news coverage of these – and many other — critical issues.”

Opening concert  -  Saturday, November 5 – 5:30 pm

The first of two conference events will take place on Saturday, November 5, at 5:30 pm, when young musicians from Beit Sahour in the West Bank join The Silver Hammer, a rock band from the CT shoreline, in a program of lively music celebrating cross-cultural friendship. Following the concert, attendees will be welcomed at a Middle Eastern dinner provided by The Islamic Center of New London and the Connecticut Council on American-Islamic Relations.

Speaker program: Voices of Conscience and Hope  – Sunday, November 6, 1:30-6:30pm

On Sunday, November 6, from 1:30 to 6:30pm, first-person accounts of peace advocacy under Israeli occupation will be offered by speakers from Israel and Palestine, and working journalists will tell  their “back-stories” of  communicating the truth in a challenging media environment.

Albert Schweitzer Professor of Philosophy at Quinnipiac University and Professor of Philosophy at Tel Aviv University, Anat Biletzki, will speak about her activism in many human rights projects in Israel, including B’Tselem – the Israeli Information Center for Human Rights in the Occupied Territories. Author Mark Braverman will talk about his efforts to project prophetic truths across religious boundaries. Allison McCracken, who has traveled extensively and worked in the West Bank, will share those experiences and report on her current work in Washington, DC with CodePink, a women-initiated grassroots peace and social justice movement. Daoud Nassar, from the Tent of Nations near Bethlehem, will give an account of his efforts to build bridges of reconciliation while trying to save his family farm from appropriation for Israeli settlements. Sahar Vardi, representing the Israeli Committee Against House Demolitions, will describe the organization’s non-violent tactics in preventing Israeli destruction of Palestinian homes in the occupied territories. Ashley Bates, assistant editor of Tikkun magazine, will relate her experiences as a journalist in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza, as well as her work with Palestinian and Israeli youth. Palestinian journalist and author of Gaza Mom, Laila El-Haddad, will tell what it’s like to both cover the story of Gaza and live it. Adam Horowitz, of Mondoweiss, a news website devoted to covering American foreign policy in the Middle East, will bring a progressive Jewish perspective to the discussion. American journalist and blogger Jared Malsin, detained and deported by Israeli authorities in 2010 while working for Ma’an, a Palestinian news agency, will consider the implications of that experience for working journalists. And Alison Weir, president of the Council for the National Interest. and executive director of If Americans Knew, a non-profit, independent research institute, will describe her work to augment mainstream reporting of the conflict.

Following the program, refreshments will be served at an arts, crafts, and information bazaar at which all conference attendees will be welcomed.

Admission, reservations, information

Both the Saturday concert and the speaker program on Sunday are open to the public. Admission: $20 per event, or $35 for admission to both. Students and persons under age 21 will be admitted free of charge. Advance registration and sponsorship commitments may be made online at www.tolef.org, or through the FCCOL office at 860-434-8686 and fccol@snet.net.

The First Congregational Church of Old Lyme is located at the intersection of Ferry Road and Lyme Street, Old Lyme, CT.

About the Tree of Life Educational Fund

The Tree of Life Educational Fund is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization established by the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme to provide cross-cultural and transnational travel experiences, educational opportunities, and interfaith events at a variety of venues, helping participants to

engage in making this a more just and peaceful world. In addition to their appearances in Old Lyme, this year’s Tree of Life Conference speakers and performers will also make presentations in West Hartford CT, New York City, Cape Cod, Cambridge MA (Harvard University), and Springfield MA. Information on these programs may be found at www.tolef.org.

 

Websites of featured speakers, organizations:

Ashley Bates www.tikkun.org/tikkundaily/contributors/bio-ashleybates

Anat Biletzki http://www.quinnipiac.edu/x1498.xml?School=LA&Dept=PO&Person=44007

Mark Braverman markbraverman.org

Laila El-Haddad www.gazamom.org

Adam Horowitz  mondoweiss.net

Jared Malsin jaredmalsin.wordpress.com

Allison McCracken www.codepink.org, www.tolef.org

Daoud Nassar  fotonna.org

Sahar Vardi www.icahd.org

Alison Weir councilforthenationalinterest.org,ifamericansknew.org

The Silver Hammer silver-hammer.webs.com

 

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Valley-Shore Y Facilities and Showers Open for Free to the Community

The Valley-Shore Y located on 201 Spencer Plains Road in Westbrook has announced that in the aftermaths of Hurricane Irene, they will keep their facility open to those who need hot a shower, a safe haven, and support.

Whether you are a member or non-member, the Y will be open FOR ALL as a community resource for those in need. Over 200,000 people were affected by Hurricane Irene in the Connecticut Shoreline and River Valley area.

The Valley-Shore YMCA can be contacted directly at the phone number 860-399-9622, website vsymca.org and for the most up to date news please visit facebook.com/valleyshoreymca

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Old Saybrook Knights of Columbus Honors International Essay Winners from Local Schools

Celebrating with the winners were their proud families, Sr. Elaine, S.C.M.C., principal St. John School, Connecticut State Essay Chairman Jim Ciaglo with wife Marg, Council 2968 Youth Director Joe Salvatore, judges and council officers, and Knights of Columbus State Deputy Scott Flood and his wife Barbara, as Ethan and Jessica (holding red folders) were presented with their International winner certificates and prizes from the Supreme Knight Carl Anderson.

Recently, the Old Saybrook Fr. Hussion Council 2968 of St. John Church honored their top two essay contestants for winning the highest awards from the Knights of Columbus.

The written competition, on “the Responsibilities of the Catholic Citizen in a Free Society,” is open to all Catholic students in grades 8 through 12, and is sponsored annually by the local Knights’ councils. After receiving first place at both local council and state levels in their grade categories earlier this year, both Connecticut winning essays were submitted to the Knights’ International competition.

Ethan Pitney, a recent honor graduate of Old Saybrook’s St. John School and parishioner with his family at St. Bridget of Kildare Church in Moodus, received first place in the top 8th grade category.  Jessica Kenny, a straight A honor student at East Lyme High School and parishioner with her family at St. Agnes in Niantic, received third place in the top 10th grade category.

 

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The Valley-Shore Y Helps Children and Teens in Need of a Safe Place to Go After School

When the bell rings at the end of the school day, children and teens need a safe and nurturing place to go when their parents are still at work or away from home. According to the Afterschool Alliance, a nonprofit public awareness advocacy organization, 15.1 million children nationwide and 28 percent of children in Connecticut alone are left unsupervised after 3 p.m., responsible for taking care of themselves. As a leading nonprofit committed to youth development, healthy living and social responsibility, the Y offers quality afterschool programs that not only help youth learn, grow and thrive, but keep them safe and surrounded by caring adults.

Combining play with academics, the Y’s afterschool programs fill gaps in schools and in the Shoreline by offering enrichment through arts, music, physical education, sports and nutrition. Youth in the Valley-Shore YMCA’s afterschool program receive homework assistance and can engage in sports, arts and other activities.

“When the school bell rings, learning does not have to end,” said Richard Ward, Youth development Director, Valley-Shore YMCA. “The Valley-Shore Y’s afterschool program is a great way to keep children and teens not only safe, but engaged in fun and productive activities.”

Studies show that participation in afterschool programs helps boost school attendance and academic performance, and helps to alleviate achievement gaps among children from disadvantaged households. Youth who attend afterschool are known to perform better academically and develop skills such as self-regulation, communication, problem solving, team building, negotiation and critical thinking. It’s also a healthy way for children and teens to stay active and productive when the school day ends.

The Valley-Shore YMCA offers afterschool programs at 8 different school sites along the towns in the Shoreline and River Valley Area: Clinton, Westbrook, Old Saybrook, Chester, Deep River and Essex. Financial assistance is available to those in need, to ensure every child and teen has the opportunity to learn and grow at the Y.

For more information about the Valley-Shore Y’s afterschool program, please contact Kathy Scholl, School Age Director, at 860-399-9622.

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Get Lost: In the Lower River Valley Heritage

Pictured are (front) Linda Kinsella of Old Saybrook Historical Society, Jeff Hostetler of Deep River Historical Society, Donna Carlson of Chester Historical Society; (standing) Charlie Farrow of East Haddam Historical Society, Deborah Shapiro of Middlesex Historical Society in Middletown, and Elizabeth Malloy of Haddam Historical Society. (Photo courtesy of Skip Hubbard)

By combining resources for a common need, six area historical societies are the beneficiaries of a $9700 grant announced by the Connecticut Humanities Council. The grant will fund a collaborative project for a brochure highlighting the CT River Valley region’s historical assets. The brochure will appeal to both residents and visitors to the area and showcase the unique history offered at each of the six historical society sites – a combination of homes and museums.  A goal of the collaborative brochure will be to entice audiences to plan visits to multiple sites and explore the area’s full heritage.

The brochure, titled “Get Lost: In the Lower River Valley Heritage,” is planned for distribution in early 2012.

Following official approval of the grant, the six-society project team met in Chester to begin definition of the brochure elements.

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Middlesex County Meet Your Greens at the Shoreline’s Back Porch in Old Saybrook

Meet Your Greens, Middlesex County monthly green drinks networking gathering, will meet August 16, 5:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m., at The Back Porch (Old Saybrook.) www.backporcholdsaybrook.com.

The evening will feature an informal talk by Margot Burns (CT River Estuary Regional Planning Agency) and Judy Preston (Tidewater Institute), who will update the group on their work this summer, funded by the US Fish & Wildlife Service, surveying the lower CT River for water chestnut (Trapa natans), an aggressive aquatic plant that has devastated areas in the northern river watershed.

The talk will explore how it got here, why people are concerned, and what people can do to help prevent its growth. “Trapa can entirely fill a quiet cove and make a wetland or watercourse much less diverse and productive,” according to Judy Preston. “It’s important for as many people as possible who use the river or are familiar with any of the tributary coves and quiet waters to know what this plant looks like and can alert the right people if they find it.”

Meet Your Greens is Middlesex County’s monthly green drinks happy-hour network providing opportunities to make connections and exchange news about environmental issues in Middlesex County. Based on the popular Green Drinks in CT and nationwide, this informal gathering of people drawn from the community, nonprofit groups and the business world offers time to brainstorm ideas and plant seeds for collaboration. All are welcome with no reservations or advanced registration necessary.

Meet Your Greens meets every third Tuesday of the month. Venues and times change– join their e-list for updates and invites by contacting Claire Rusowicz, crusowicz@rockfallfoundation.org; or Jennifer Weymouth, jaweymouth@yahoo.com. You can also join them on Facebook (“Meet Your Greens”).

Schedule updates are also provided on The Rockfall Foundation website, www.rockfallfoundation.org.  The Rockfall Foundation supports environmental education, conservation programs and planning initiatives in Middlesex County. Established in 1935, it is one of Connecticut’s oldest environmental organizations whose mission is to be a catalyst– bringing people together and supporting organizations to conserve and enhance the county’s natural environment. Rockfall awards grants each year to organizations, schools and municipalities, and continues to hold and manage open space property in the county.

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